For Adults and Parents

What does it take in today’s world to lay the foundation for a young man to learn the skills to be successful in life?

Parents are looking for programs that offer life skills and social interactions that will provide a broad range of activities to engage and interest their son.

Since 1919, DeMolay has a proven track record of providing character building and leadership skills. In tandem with athletic, social, civic and service oriented activities, DeMolay empowers its members to take ownership of their organization and develop a program that will build interest for other members. DeMolay strives to achieve four key development goals for every young man:

Character Development, Leadership Development, Responsibility and Accountability, Mental, Moral and Emotional Fitness



We appreciate your interest in DeMolay and welcome the opportunity to discuss the many aspects of our organization specifically designed to provide your son with positive experiential training in leadership, organizational management, community service, public speaking, event planning and more.

Parents are encouraged to get involved with their son's Demolay chapter. 

The success of every chapter depends on the active participation of our Chapter Advisors and Adult Volunteers.  We welcome the contribution of your time and talents to the extent your interest and schedule allows.

We realize that you may have questions about DeMolay and on this page we have attempted to answer some of those most frequently asked.  You are always welcome to contact us directly with any question or concerns.  You can contact the Executive Officer of the Jurisdiction also at any time.

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